LOST IN LOVE??

TO FEEL THE REAL ECSTASY OF BEING IN LOVE IS POSSIBLE ONLY IF YOU HAVE FELT THE ECSTASY OF BEING ALONE,IF U WANT JOY TO ABOUND YOUR LOVE,LET FIRST LONLINESS BE ABOUNDED WITH JOY.THEN ONLY YOU WILL HAVE SOMETHING TO SHARE.
FIRST FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF IN YOUR LONLINESS,AS I BELIEVE IF YOU CANNOT LOVE YOURSELF YOU CAN NEVER LOVE ANYONE ELSE TOO.FIRST FILL YOUR CUP OF LOVE AND THEN OFFER OTHERS,IF YOUR OWN CUP WILL BE EMPTY WHAT WILL YOU GIVE TO OTHERS.
WE SEARCH FOR LOVE OUTSIDE AS WE KNOW THAT OUR CUP IS EMPTY AND WE LOOK OUT FOR SOMEONE WHO WILL FILL IT,AND THE OTHER IS SEARCHING FOR THE SAME.OSHO USED TO SAY THAT -"THE MAN IS INTERESTED IN THE WOMAN,THE WOMAN IS INTERESTED IN THE MAN.EVERYBODY IS INTERESTED IN THE OTHER.IT SEEMS AS THE OTHER HAS GOT ALL YOU NEED AND THE OTHER IS THINKING THAT YOU HAVE ALL HE OR SHE NEEDS.BOTH ARE BEGGARS BELIEVING THAT THE OTHER HAS KINGDOM"
SO, IF BOTH THE CUPS ARE EMPTY,SO THIER MEETING,THEIR CLINGING,CAN NEVER BE BLISSFULL.THEY WILL CREATE MISERY FOR EACHOTHER BECAUSE EACH WILL BE HOPING ,AND HOPING IN VAIN"THE OTHER IS GOING TO FULLFILL ME ".BUT IF BOTH ARE BLIND HOW WILL THEY HELP EACHOTHER TO SEE THE STARS.
I HAVE HEARD A PARABLE THAT ONCE A HUNTER GOT LOST IN THE JUNGLE.FOR SO MANY DAYS HE COULDN'T FIND ANYONE TO ASK FOR THE WAY,HE WAS BECOMING MORE AND MORE PANICKY;NO FOOD ;NO WATER NOTHING.AT ONE FINE DAY HE SAW A MAN SITTING UNDER A TREE.HE RUSHED AND HUGGED HIM AND SAID,"WHAT JOY!"AND THE OTHER HUGGED HIM TOO.AS HE WAS ALSO WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO ASK FOR THE WAY OUT.SO NOW BOTH ARE TOGETHER BUT NOW BOTH ARE LOST TOGETHER.

THATS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN TWO PERSONS GET MARRIED AS BOTH ARE LONELY AND LOST AND NOW THEY ARE LIVING TOGETHER-TWO LONLINESS TOGETHER.
"TWO WOUNDS CANNOT HELP EACHOTHER TO BE HEALED"